Carolyn Hax: Amid crises, loved ones’ sympathy becomes ‘almost unbearable’

Hi, Carolyn. I’m having major spine surgery in a few weeks, and my husband will need to have chemo during the time I’m recovering from surgery and can’t drive. I have good friends who I know will help with the driving and other logistical issues. I haven’t told a couple of these people about the che...

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