Carolyn Hax: How to stop in-laws from making everyone’s plans without asking?

Hi, Carolyn: My new in-laws are lovely people, and I enjoy spending time with them. However, they have a tendency to simply tell my spouse and me where and when we’re gathering. For example, “This is the weekend we are going to celebrate Mom’s birthday,” without asking if it works for us, even thoug...

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